zhabohadyuking
English
Etymology
Borrowed from Ukrainian жабогадю́кінг (žabohadjúkinh, “a specific conflict between two disliked enemies”). Made of жаба (žaba, “a frog”) + гадюка (hadjuka, “viper”) + -ing. The term mimics modern English activity nouns (such as brainstorming or networking) and was coined in Ukrainian internet culture to humorously describe a particular style of interpersonal conflict.
The word is believed to be a modern, ironic adaptation of the Ukrainian folk saying Ukrainian їба́ла жа́ба гадю́ку (jibála žába hadjúku) (literally, “the frog fucked the viper”), which refers to a grotesque or absurd fight between two equally unpleasant individuals. The phrase is deeply embedded in Ukrainian vernacular and serves as a metaphor for conflict devoid of moral high ground.
The term "zhabohadyuking" has since appeared in online commentary and media discussions, particularly in reference to passive-aggressive gossip or toxic public feuds.
Noun
zhabohadyuking (uncountable)
- (humorous, slang, Internet slang, Ukraine, neologism) The act of group gossip characterized by malice, passive aggression, or spiteful commentary, typically behind someone's back.
- That influencer feud is pure zhabohadyuking — no heroes, just venom.
- The group chat turned into a session of zhabohadyuking about the manager.
- (humorous, slang, Internet slang, Ukraine, neologism) A public argument or feud between two parties who are equally unpleasant, corrupt, or morally compromised — provoking ridicule rather than sympathy.
- “Watching two shady politicians go after each other — total zhabohadyuking in action.
- It’s not a debate, it’s zhabohadyuking: just venom from both sides.
- 2025 June 6, yarochenko, Threads[1]:
- 🚨 Trump vs. Elon = Peak Zhabohadyuking
Two egos. Zero winners & one big beautiful breakup. 👀🍿
Usage notes
Popularised among English-speaking Internet users who supported Ukraine since the 2022 Russian invasion of the country, and among Ukrainians who use English.
Synonyms
See also
- passive-aggression
- character assassination
- backstabbing
- cringe politics